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XBiz article:Well, I guess that about sums up the dy fromy perspective. I hope you enjoyed my little report. Check out the link below for the official XBiz article:
How many times have you heard that if a woman calls a guy “nice”, it’s like the kiss of death? Yep, if I had a nickel for every time…(you know the rest). And despite the logic, I tend to think there is some truth to that statement. However misguided, however crazy, most women don’t want Mr. Sensitive Ponytail Man (I know, I’m dating myself by quoting from the movie Singles…lol.) Anyway, I think many women fantasize about being taken by some bad-ass dude, and in the real world they end up falling for an asshole.
And herein lies the disconnect, as I see it. Women don’t actually want a bad-ass (except in their fantasies – hey, I’ll admit to daydreaming about being with a rugged – but still good looking – Harley guy). OK, before I digress into my fantasies, let’s get back on track. Most women don’t actually want a bad-ass, but they do want a man who is confident. Unfortunately, many ladies out there have a difficult time distinguishing between “confident” and “asshole”, and wind up with the latter. So, here are some suggestions on how you can tell the difference:
Confident: He walks across the room, looks you in the eyes and says, “Would you like to dance?”
Asshole: He struts across the room, looks at your rack, and says, “How YOU doin”?”
Confident: He makes reservations at a restaraunt for your first date
Asshole: He orders your food for you
Confident: He tries to teach you his favorite sport/activity while making sure you’re having fun
Asshole: He tries to teach you his favorite sport/activity and is more concerned about how he performs
Confident: He kisses you passionately, picks you up, and carries you to the bedroom
Asshole: He grabs your boobs, feels you up, and drops his pants right then and there